Chasing the Love I May Have Lost

This film (drama)Also known as追赶我可能丢了的爱情，is aMainland ChinaProducerbeauty live，At2005Released in year 。The dialogue language isMandarin，Current Douban rating8.4(For reference only)。

After having a son, Guanjian, and a daughter, Guanhaili, Shiruoyu's husband, Guanshoujia, underwent a vasectomy. Ten years later, Shiruoyu unexpectedly became pregnant with their youngest daughter, Shixiaoyu. Guanshoujia suspected her of having an affair, and no matter how Shiruoyu explained, it was in vain, leading to their divorce. The three children were raised by Shiruoyu, while Guanshoujia was transferred from Beijing to Yunnan. Twenty-four years later, while dancing at the square, Shiruoyu suddenly saw her ex-husband Guanshoujia, whom she hadn’t seen since their divorce. Meanwhile, Shixiaoyu, 26, was preparing to marry her boyfriend, Yang Xu, but on the eve of their departure, he suddenly fled, leaving her alone in the waiting area. Heartbroken, Shixiaoyu decided not to board the flight. A fellow passenger, Wei Jingge, insisted on helping her get on the plane back to Beijing. Shiruoyu’s son Guanjian felt no affection for his wife, who took their child to America and was gone for six years, resulting in a hollow marriage. He immersed himself in memories of his first love, Yao Qiqi, through computers. Shiruoyu's eldest daughter Guanhaili struggled to conceive and became troubled when her husband, Tang Zhengyuan, had a car accident. While caring for him, she suffered unbearable mental torment and decided to divorce him when he recovered. Due to a lack of housing, they continued to live in the same building post-divorce. One day, Tang Zhengyuan collapsed in his room and woke up with no memory. Guanhaili took care of him as a wife would, trying to help him regain his memory through various training. Tang Zhengyuan recovered quickly but could not remember who Guanhaili was. On her 40th birthday, Guanhaili moved out of the home she shared with Tang Zhengyuan for over ten years. During her darkest moments, she met Li Jianghu, who owned a car repair shop. He supported her in opening a pottery studio when she faced unemployment, and her life gradually improved, leading to a romantic relationship between them. Yang Xu hurt Shixiaoyu, but she still yearned for their relationship, hoping her efforts could salvage their marriage. During this time, Wei Jingge became a close friend, and they confided in each other without considering a romantic relationship. After going in circles, Yang Xu sought Shixiaoyu again, only for her to realize she had fallen out of love with him. Yang Xu desperately begged her to marry him, and despite her reluctance, Shixiaoyu agreed. Wei Jingge confronted her, resulting in a fierce argument, and they vowed never to see each other again. As the train departed from Beijing Station, Shixiaoyu saw Wei Jingge pursuing the train in his car. Realizing they loved each other, she jumped off the train and returned to Beijing with him. Through paternity testing, Guanshoujia discovered that Shixiaoyu was his biological daughter, and Shiruoyu's pregnancy was due to a rare phenomenon after the vasectomy. Regretting his past, Guanshoujia worked tirelessly to mend his relationships with his wife and children, gaining their forgiveness except for Shixiaoyu, who refused to forgive him. Guanshoujia, who had been suffering from a persistent cold, was later diagnosed with lung cancer. Shiruoyu was devastated and accused him of tormenting her even in his last days. Shixiaoyu felt conflicted as Guanshoujia told her that if she forgave him, he would seek treatment; otherwise, he preferred death. Shixiaoyu tearfully accepted him as her father. After surgery, Guanshoujia's condition worsened, and the family took turns to accompany him. In his final days, he experienced the life he always dreamed of, regaining the love and family bonds he had lost. Guanhaili became pregnant after marrying Li Jianghu and walked the streets with her baby bump, with Li Jianghu by her side. She spotted Tang Zhengyuan, who was also out with his pregnant wife. Tang Zhengyuan watched Guanhaili struggle to recall memories, ultimately remembering her as the wife he had lived with for 15 years, stirring complex emotions within him. Shixiaoyu and Wei Jingge continued to bicker daily, their arguments varying in content but yielding the same results. Their feelings deepened, bringing them closer to the threshold of marriage. Guanjian decided to move on from his past and face reality anew through conversations with online friends. Shiruoyu continued to dance every day, talking about her late husband and all he had done, but never mentioning a single negative thing. She gently edited their life together in her memory, leaving only the beautiful moments.